Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings. For some, romantic relationships are the most meaningful element in their lives, providing a source of fulfillment outside of ourselves. But the ability to have a healthy, loving relationship is not all innate
- “Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”
– Anais Nin - “A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.”
– Leo F. Buscaglia - “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”
– Walter Winchell - “The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
– Carl Jung - “Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.”
– William James - “When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
– Donald Miller - “If you would be loved, love, and be loveable.”
— Benjamin Franklin - “No road is long with good company.”
— Turkish Proverb - “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.”
— Carl W. Buechner - “People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.”
— Joseph F. Newton Men - “Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.”
— Swedish Proverb - “You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.”
— Epicurus - “Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust and hostility to evaporate.”
— Albert Schweitzer - “For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.”
— Audrey Hepburn - “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”
— Dale Carnegie - “Nobody can hurt me without my permission.”
— Mahatma Gandhi - “As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience another person, you can only experience them in your mind.
Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts.
For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behavior. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, you can only process them in your mind.”
— Wayne Dyer - “Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
— Henry Winkler - “A good word is an easy obligation; but not to speak ill requires only our silence; which costs us nothing.”
— John Tillotson - “Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself.”
— Andre Breton - “Relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is.
The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled.
A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.”
— Kaleel Jamison - “A woman knows the face of the man she loves as a sailor knows the open sea.”
— Honore de Balzac - “Someone to tell it to is one of the fundamental needs of human beings.”
— Miles Franklin - “Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, ‘What! You too? I thought I was the only one”
— C.S. Lewis - “The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.”
— Thomas Merton - “When a woman is talking to you, listen to what she says with her eyes.”
— Victor Hugo - “Some think love can be measured by the amount of butterflies in their tummy. Others think love can be measured in bunches of flowers, or by using the words ‘for ever.’ But love can only truly be measured by actions. It can be a small thing, such as peeling an orange for a person you love because you know they don’t like doing it.”
— Marian Keyes - “We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if we become encouragers instead of critics.”
— Joyce Meyer - “Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.”
— James Baldwin - “Don’t smother each other. No one can grow in the shade.”
— Leo Buscaglia - “We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.”
— Eleanor Roosevelt - “Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.”
— Anthony Robbins - “The royal road to a man’s heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most.”
— Dale Carnegie - “We often refuse to accept an idea merely because the tone of voice in which it has been expressed is unsympathetic to us.”
— Friedrich Nietzsche - “It is of practical value to learn to like yourself. Since you must spend so much time with yourself you might as well get some satisfaction out of the relationship.”
— Norman Vincent Peale - “Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”
— Oprah Winfrey - “What love we’ve given, we’ll have forever. What love we fail to give, will be lost for all eternity.”
— Leo Buscaglia - “Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you believe that you too can become great.”
— Mark Twain - “The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when someone asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer.”
— Henry David Thoreau - “You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles between you, but at the same time you carry them with you in your heart, your mind, your stomach, because you do not just live in a world but a world lives in you.”
— Frederick Buechner - “Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky.”
— Rainer Maria Rilke - “The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.”
— Gilbert K. Chesterton - “True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable.”
— David Tyson Gentry - “When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we’re still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising.
This can go on and on–series polygamy–until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment.
Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.”
— Tom Robbins - “If men would consider not so much wherein they differ, as wherein they agree, there would be far less of uncharitableness and angry feeling in the world.”
— Joseph Addison - “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.”
— Tennessee Williams - “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.”
— Carl Jung - “When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.”
— Dale Carnegie - “Three things in human life are important: the first is to be kind; the second is to be kind; and the third is to be kind.”
— Henry James - “When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.”
— Catherine Ponder
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